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COVID-19: The future of sex parties

COVID-19: The future of sex parties

Thursday, 3rd September 2020

What will sex clubs in the UK look like post-pandemic? How can you go to a swingers party or attend orgies if you’re technically not meant to touch each other? Here’s what to expect from sex-parties post-pandemic, and how you can stay safe while still having lots of fun.

Coronavirus update

Coronavirus update

Tuesday, 24th March 2020

Due to the worldwide Coronavirus pandemic and latest UK government guidelines, we are restricting some parts of the Desires website to encourage social distancing and help prevent the spread of COVID-19.

Sex parties in the UK

Sex parties in the UK

Tuesday, 11th February 2020

Things have changed enormously on the sex scene over the last ten years or so. The combination of the internet and more liberal attitudes towards intimacy now mean that practically anything goes, including fully-fledged sex parties.

How it works

Once you've created a Desires account, you'll be free to create a profile for yourself (and your partner if you're a couple). You can then browse other members in your area before exchanging messages and exploring your fantasies with other members. Whether you're looking for friends with benefits, an extra for your threesome fantasy or other couples for full swinging experiences, Desires is a safe and discrete platform to assist you on your quest.

Desires is a community run site meaning your feedback is valued. If you'd like to see a feature on the website that doesn't already exist, let us know and we may just implement it.

Adult parties in the UK

In addition to individual profiles, we also feature information on clubs and sex parties around the UK for the more adventurous folk. Furthermore we host a number of exclusive Desires parties around the UK throughout the year. Check the Events pages for more information.

We hope you enjoy your Desires experience!